Oppressed Woman

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Name : Lulu Arifina
Student ID : 12/328958/SA/16277
Subject : Dasar Dasar Ilmu Budaya

Women Shouldn’t be Like This
One question in my head. What reactions if all ladies and woman in this world were ordered that they have to marriage? Maybe all of the woman would scream out loud. However it would be wishes for every woman in this world to be married. They wish that they have a handsome-wealthy-and lovely husband who always loves them no matter what. However, they have never imagined that marriage-life sometimes feels hard for some woman in this world. Woman who has a bad experience in their marriage sometimes feels that they are just like a robot. Who always and must be obey their husband. In case, for woman who has bad marriage, their condition would be like hell for them. Why? Because they have no freedom, they have no right to do this and that except from their husband’s allowance so, woman who lives in a pressure can be called the oppressed women.

So, what happen with them? Why those women categorized as an ‘Oppressed Woman’? Well, according to Merriam-Webster dictionary, oppressed women is a women that burden in spiritually or mentally. They not only oppressed by marriage, it can be caused by their society, their enviroment, even by their family. Oppressed woman can be found everywhere in this world. In this case, I know someone who has been a victim by her husband. You can call her Mrs. M.

Mrs. M is a married women. His husband is called Mr. B. They have been married for almost 27 years. They have two children. The oldest was studying in UNY, while the youngest was my friend and now is studying at UGM. During this marriage, Mrs. M always feels frightened with her husband. She is afraid if someday her husband left her and went with other girls. It is not nonsense. Since her husband liked to date other women and Mr. B often do harassement toward Mrs.…...

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